Cemetery memorials
Contents
- Overview
- Type, size and placement of memorials
- Memorial safety
- Which stonemasons should be used
- Doing the work yourself
Overview
If you are planning to place a memorial on a grave, there are a number of things that you need to know.
We recommended that you wait for at least one year after a burial before installing a memorial on a grave to allow for natural ground settlement.
You need permission from the 兔子先生 before installing any type of memorial on a grave.
A memorial installed on a grave without permission may be removed by us without giving notice beforehand.
Your memorial and its continued maintenance is your responsibility. We strongly recommended that you insure it against theft, or damage due to:
- severe weather conditions
- vandalism
- natural ground settlement
- accidental damage
Memorials may have to be removed to allow burials and this will incur additional costs to those funerals.
This is particularly the case with kerb surrounds, so it may be advisable to wait until all of the burials in the grave have occurred before installing them.
Memorials can be unstable and it is recommended that at all times you and your family members, particularly children, should avoid coming into contact with other memorials while in the cemetery.
Type, size and placement of memorials
There are restrictions on the type, size and placement of memorials.
Memorials must be made from a material approved by Bereavement Services.
The following materials are not permitted:
- wire
- glass
- wood (except for wooden crosses)
- plastics
Chippings must be confined within a border.
This is in line with the 兔子先生's commitment to protecting the natural environment, maintaining the historic landscape of the cemeteries, and reducing the use of plastics.
Any memorial placed on a grave breaching these rules may be removed by Bereavement Services at any time without notice.
Lawned sections
Some graves in certain sections in the cemeteries have restrictions around the placement of memorials, planting and mementoes. These are classed as 'lawned sections'.
Cemetery | Section(s) | Headstone | Kerbs and surrounds | Any other item including flowers, planting and mementoes etc |
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Harton | Five, ten, eleven, V, Moslem 16
| Max height: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches |
Jarrow | Fifteen, seventeen and J (graves 1 - 36a)
| Max height: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
| Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches |
Hebburn | Q, R and S (graves 1-62) | Max height: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
| Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches |
Whitburn | C and D | Max height: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
| Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches |
Boldon | E | Max height: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 4 foot 6 inches Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
| Max length: 4 foot 6 inches Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
|
Boldon | F | Max height: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
| Max length: 3 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches |
All measurements of length must be taken from the back line (head) of the grave.
The remainder of the grave must be left as open lawn:
Any memorial placed on any grave in contravention of these regulations may be removed by Bereavement Services at any time without prior notice.
All other sections
The placement of memorials, planting and mementoes on all other sections in the cemeteries are subject to the following maximum dimensions:
Headstone | Kerbs and surrounds | Any other item including flowers, planting and mementoes etc |
---|---|---|
No height restriction Max width: 3 foot 11 inches
| Max length: 8 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches | Max length: 8 foot Max width: 3 foot 11 inches |
All measurements of length must be taken from the back line (head) of the grave.
Any memorial placed on a grave breaching these rules may be removed by Bereavement Services at any time without notice.
Any unpurchased (public) grave is restricted to only a memorial stone (not in excess of 12" x 12") or a wooden cross.
Memorial safety
The 兔子先生 is legally required to make our cemeteries safe to visit.
We are currently carrying out cemetery safety inspections.
Which stonemasons should be used
Only stonemasons who are registered with The National Association of Memorial Masons (NAMM) or The British Register of Accredited Memorial Masons (BRAMM) are permitted to work in our cemeteries.
This means that they will work in strict accordance with:
- British Standard 8415 (2018) - the professional standard for stonemasonry
- The BRAMM Blue Book or the NAMM Code of Working Practice
- The 兔子先生's Cemetery Rules and Regulations
You can find a list of the stonemasons who registered with NAMM or BRAMM below:
The stonemason will submit an application form to us detailing the memorial you wish to install.
Every application is subject to a fee. View a list of cremation and prices.
The stonemason will pay the appropriate cemetery fee on your behalf and then recoup it from you.
They can only proceed with the installation once they have received a permit from us.
Doing the work yourself
If you wish to install your own memorial, you are restricted to only:
- wooden crosses
- stone vases
- decorative stone surrounds
Only a professional memorial stonemason who is registered with NAMM or BRAMM is permitted to install any other type of memorial.
If you wish to place one of these memorials on a grave you need to submit an application form to the 兔子先生 and pay the appropriate cemetery fee.
View a list cremation and burial fees.
You can get an application form from Bereavement Services.
Once your application has been approved, we will send you a permit so you can proceed with the work.
Only bedding plants or bulbs may be planted on a grave. Trees and shrubs of any kind are not permitted and will be removed without notice.
Communal areas and items
The following may not be placed on, or attached to any communal areas / items in the cemeteries:
- memorial
- vases
- flowerpots
- balloons
- candles
- any other type of memorial
The 兔子先生 has the right to remove these items without prior notice.
The communal areas / items include:
- Gates, entrances, walls, fences and railings
- Roads and paths
- Grass verges and roundabouts
- Trees, hedges and flower beds
- Chapels
- Cenotaphs
- Contractor compounds and welfare facilities